Determining your sexual orientation can be a confusing experience, but only you can truly determine it, on your own terms. There's no test for it yet, so the most reliable method is to look at your history and feelings, and make an educated guess. Below is some helpful information on figuring out a little more about your sexuality. Note: In this guide, the term gay has been used to include all forms of attraction to the same gender, whether that be people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, or other.
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According to this model, in order to be gay, you must have always known that you were different. You should grow up struggling to suppress crushes on members of the opposite sex. When I was 16, I fell in love with a girl, and my world promptly flipped on its axis. Up until that point, I had only had crushes on guys—and no shortage of crushes, either.
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Q IF I were to say to you that I am in love, it would be a massive understatement. But love is the only word I can think of that comes close to describing how I feel about the person who is the sole occupant of my thoughts every minute of every hour of every day. I am a year-old male third-level student. Until I came to college, I had very few close friends.
As a kid, I talked with a lisp and hated sports, and I preferred to sing and study. At some point, I learned that these are stereotypically gay male traits, and then I knew: I was going to grow up to be a gay man. I was wrong. For example, the most recent girl I kissed — and the one before that, and so on — drew back from my face, laughing. That is, we assume all men and women might not be so straight, or we remove our assumptions from the picture altogether.