For many years, one of my jobs was answering anonymous sex questions for a teen website. And when I did, I was reminded just how common it is for people to either worry that first sex will be painful, or to actually have painful first sex. When he put it in, it hurt really bad. Is their any way for it not to hurt? And if we do, why?
My boyfriend checked my vagina and said I wasn't a virgin - how can I make him believe me?
7 Sex Myths You Totally Believed Growing Up — No, Tampons Do Not Compromise Your Virginity
When we're growing up, we're pretty desperate to learn about sex any way that we can — and if the adults in our lives are not forthcoming, we'll use any resources we have at hand, even if they're resources that mostly traffic in sex myths. Are these resources generally shady message board forums, stolen pieces of porn, or an older guy who for some reason is still hanging around high school kids? But does this mitigate this information's impact on our burgeoning psyches? In fact, even years after we realize how weird that guy Tony was He was 19! Why did he want to play Sega with a bunch of 10th graders?? Even the most enlightened among us may still have moments where we wonder if using two condoms might make us safer than one, or fear that the number of sex partners we have had has rendered our vaginas "loose" and the thus the sensation of intercourse with us is like the proverbial "throwing a hot dog down a hallway. It's not our fault — it's hard to forget dumb stuff you learned as a tween that's why you still remember so much about The Simple Life.
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